My Dad
Sept 21, 2010 1:56:07 GMT
Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2010 1:56:07 GMT
My dad is driving me insane. Whenever I'm doing something, for example if I'm browsing the posts on this forum, he comes over and trys to get into my business. If he found out I was a therian, he would disown me, send me to a mental institute and probably shoot me. So when I tell him, "It's none of your business," he just says, "Yes, it is," with this big f***ing perky grin on his face. (Sorry about the language.) I once told him that he does not control me, and then he said, flat out, that he did. EVERY ASPECT. Lol, apparently not. (Therian!) He puts down my opinion of everything unless it agrees with his, and he always says his opinion is fact, regardless of the amount of evidence (which is typically none.) He insults my hobbies and likes, for example, drawing, whenever I draw something (which is my PASSION, by the way) he always manages to have some way of making it seem stupid. Whenever I am writing my stories, which is my other passion and career, he comes over and insults that, too. Then he laughs at me for what I do. He hates anime because I like it; before I got into he had no opinion on it. He blames me for anything that goes wrong, for example if the batteries in the remote are dead, he'll call me over and ask me why I screwed up the remote. Which I don't, very rarely when he blames me is it actually justified. He patronizes me. Extremely. He believes I'm not capable of anything (and yet still manages to blame me.) He hates my music. He hates and puts down any tv show that I like (dark angel, house, bones, etc.) We once got in an argument and I said, "Well, I'm not you," and he said, "Yes, you are," to which I thought, WTF. Once we got in an argument, and I said, "Well, we will have to agree to disagree, besides I'm only stating my opinion," and he said, quite bluntly, "Well, your opinion is wrong," He thinks that anything and everything is his business, including my friend's personal life (which is not even MY business.) Oh, but the one that really takes the cake is: ever since I started getting sick, he didn't believe me, and actually started punishing me for BEING SICK! Now he thinks I'm depressed and need to see a therapist. I have proof from my physical therapist that what I have is Vertigo, a crystal was loose in my inner ear and made me feel sick constantly, it's back in place now, but I have to do rehab to stop feeling dizzy. Because I constantly feel like I'm going to puke and faint, I go to bed early and get up late. I'm being homeschooled, so I can do that. But he thinks that I'm 'depressed' because I spend so much time in bed. The day before yesterday he actually theartened to send me to the hospital for 'depression', which I know the hospital will not accept, for one thing I have proof of a real sickness, plus being a hospital is something would make someone depressed, and hospitals don't treat that, anyway. I rarely ever cry and regardless of being sick I still love my life and myself. I love to see clear sky and sunshine and hate it when it's cloudy. I tend to wear light blues and greens and whites. I can usually be seen similing. So I guess my only explaintion for him is that he's F***ing nuts.
It goes on and on and on. But I think you get the idea. What should I do about him? I get closer to exploding every time, and to be honest, I want to. I just want him to shut the H*** up and figure out that he's not on the throne of the world. I have no problem telling him to burn; he's no father to me. Just a pathetic bully.
Thank you if you bothered to read that rant. I hope the language doesn't bother you, I'll take it out if it does. Please post. I would really like to hear your thoughts, and if anybody has some good comebacks for him, that would be great too, thanks.
It goes on and on and on. But I think you get the idea. What should I do about him? I get closer to exploding every time, and to be honest, I want to. I just want him to shut the H*** up and figure out that he's not on the throne of the world. I have no problem telling him to burn; he's no father to me. Just a pathetic bully.
Thank you if you bothered to read that rant. I hope the language doesn't bother you, I'll take it out if it does. Please post. I would really like to hear your thoughts, and if anybody has some good comebacks for him, that would be great too, thanks.