LunaSilvermist
- Therian - Standard Animal
Nordic Black Phase Fox
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Post by LunaSilvermist on Mar 25, 2016 23:29:57 GMT
Me and my friend Demetri are super close and I love him with all my heart though i have been getting flashes of one of my past lives from the very day i met him and they keep getting stronger each time we hang out. see he used to me my mate in my past life as my wolf theriotype Luna i dont talk about her much because i don't want the hassle of trying to prove my self but she was my first kin type to awaken and i found her at 10 way before i knew what any of this was and i was still that kid going to church every Sunday i would get visions of a light gray female wolf named luna with her mate Dacoda and their pups. Dacoda died in a wildfire and im afraid of loosing Demetri again so i am happy with our friendship but i keep thinking what would happen if Dacoda awakened? He has one theriotype that is awakened and that is a Jelleyfish and he is my adorable squishy but i keep wondering what would happen if i just said Dacoda is a silly wolf in front of him would it click or would he not even pick up on it. Most things go over my silly stoner's head but i love him and i want to be near him if i can only be his friend shouldn't that be enough? Then why is my brain full of nagging what ifs?
anyone have any suggestions on what to do? How i could bring up a conversation with him about it and not seem like a thisty fanboi or anything? me and him both struggle with trust and commitment issues so being gentle is a must
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G.D.
- Otherkin - Extraterrestrial or Metaphysical
Vampiric Black Shuck
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Post by G.D. on Mar 26, 2016 0:10:27 GMT
The only advice I have to offer is to not duplicate your posts. People will see them, and they don't need to be posted in multiple places as it does nothing but clutter the forum. As well, if you are going to maintain the journal posted before this thread was made, it helps to read the guidelines concerning journals. Journals should be stated, bluntly, as being journals. With the word 'Journal' being somewhere in the title.
Wolves, nor any other animal, do not have names in the wild. Unless given to them by a human. The concept of a name is also a human one, and animals in the wild identify each other through sight, scent, and body language. Saying the name to your friend, or anyone for that matter, would likely have no effect. Given the reality of the world around us.
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Kasumi Noxumbra
- Otherkin - Animal Mix
Mythical Beast Spectral Draconic Wolf Hybrid
Just don't know what to do........every effort almost feels wasted
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Post by Kasumi Noxumbra on Mar 26, 2016 0:16:54 GMT
LunaSilvermist,
I honestly don't have any suggestions for that, and I do agree with what Geist said. Not to sound mean or anything, but if you're having issues with trust and commitment, then both of you should probably work on that first rather than worrying about the other things. In due time, once trust and commitment aren't a problem anymore, it'd be easier for you both to talk things out. We're not really a relationship help desk, so not a lot of us are going to have suggestions. I'm not even sure how you know he's your lover from a past life, if he himself doesn't even know it, as chances of that are really slim. I'd also like to ask that you not mention drug related matters like stoner as even stating that someone is is pretty close to breaking forum rules.
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LunaSilvermist
- Therian - Standard Animal
Nordic Black Phase Fox
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Post by LunaSilvermist on Mar 26, 2016 5:07:24 GMT
The only advice I have to offer is to not duplicate your posts. People will see them, and they don't need to be posted in multiple places as it does nothing but clutter the forum. As well, if you are going to maintain the journal posted before this thread was made, it helps to read the guidelines concerning journals. Journals should be stated, bluntly, as being journals. With the word 'Journal' being somewhere in the title. Wolves, nor any other animal, do not have names in the wild. Unless given to them by a human. The concept of a name is also a human one, and animals in the wild identify each other through sight, scent, and body language. Saying the name to your friend, or anyone for that matter, would likely have no effect. Given the reality of the world around us. These two where only semi wild wolves Luna i gave her her name like i did with Sage Rain sort of came with a name seeing as she owned horse Dacoda had a radio collar and the name is from what i have heard researchers call him in the dreams they have been in im only tying to make sense of why the flashes would hit so hard when i touch or come near my friend and why he is starting to feel it to it has brought us closer yes but its confusing
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LunaSilvermist
- Therian - Standard Animal
Nordic Black Phase Fox
I am now on Therian Guide LunaSilvermist I'm still going to be here but inactive till the Site move
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Post by LunaSilvermist on Mar 26, 2016 5:12:03 GMT
LunaSilvermist ,
I honestly don't have any suggestions for that, and I do agree with what Geist said. Not to sound mean or anything, but if you're having issues with trust and commitment, then both of you should probably work on that first rather than worrying about the other things. In due time, once trust and commitment aren't a problem anymore, it'd be easier for you both to talk things out. We're not really a relationship help desk, so not a lot of us are going to have suggestions. I'm not even sure how you know he's your lover from a past life, if he himself doesn't even know it, as chances of that are really slim. I'd also like to ask that you not mention drug related matters like stoner as even stating that someone is is pretty close to breaking forum rules. not going to argue but i just wish to point out if you are worried about legality there are numerous states where marijuana is legal for medical and recreational use and the term can just refer to the way some one acts which in his case he acts like one
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Kasumi Noxumbra
- Otherkin - Animal Mix
Mythical Beast Spectral Draconic Wolf Hybrid
Just don't know what to do........every effort almost feels wasted
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Post by Kasumi Noxumbra on Mar 26, 2016 5:31:40 GMT
LunaSilvermist,
Unfortunately it's still illegal by federal standards even though some states have legalized it for medicinal uses, so we still have to warn members away from talking about it. -shrugs- Either way, I don't have a problem with people that use it or it itself. I just try to make sure forum rules are followed and not being broken or stretched close to being broken.
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Seraphyna
- Therian - Standard Animal
Standard Animal Lion and Reef Shark
Resident Shlion
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Post by Seraphyna on Mar 26, 2016 11:01:01 GMT
All I have to add is that a past life isn't this life. Don't expect relationships to be the same, feelings to be returned, etc. because you're now two different people.
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LunaSilvermist
- Therian - Standard Animal
Nordic Black Phase Fox
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Post by LunaSilvermist on Mar 26, 2016 22:59:15 GMT
All I have to add is that a past life isn't this life. Don't expect relationships to be the same, feelings to be returned, etc. because you're now two different people. we have actually started talking about it and he admitted the reason he does not want to change our friendship is the same as why im not pushing the issue we are too afraid of loosing each other thanks for your input
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2016 6:42:30 GMT
May I suggest just saying "wouldn't it be cool if we knew each other in a past life?" I'm not sure if that'd trigger anything but it's worth a shot, right?
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